Foster parents needed for kids
In 2023 on any given day, 6,150 children and youth experienced out-of-home care, according to the Minnesota Department of Human Services. Children’s Home Society and Lutheran Social Service of Minnesota are affiliated organizations seeking foster parents to partner with them in caring for children and youth in need.
Denise Rude and her husband, Ian, decided long ago that they wanted to provide foster care to children. They first began caring for children in Texas and then care concerns with extended family brought them back to Minnesota. They connected with Lutheran Social Service to get the foster care licensing process started here and have appreciated their guidance and support.
“Sometimes, you receive a call for an immediate placement, and you might not have supplies ready for all ages of children LSS has also dropped by with diapers, clothes and other supplies so that you have what you need in those first days,” Denise said.
The Rudes were not necessarily planning to adopt children in their care, though they were open to it. Then, the opportunity arose to adopt three siblings. They knew they had the ability, the love, and the space, along with support from family and friends.
“We've always said that the children in our care are welcome to stay as long as needed, and we know how important it is to keep siblings together,” Denise said.
Children’s Home and Lutheran Social Service provide a range of services based on the unique needs of each child in foster care to ensure that all children have individualized supports they need to build healthy relationships and flourish in the community. Comprehensive training for foster parents also promotes high quality care and ensures they have the support needed to be successful in creating a safe and stable environment where children thrive. In addition, trained professionals are available to offer support to foster parents 24/7.
Families and individuals who provide foster care can have different household structures and come from diverse backgrounds. The two organizations are seeking foster parents who are willing to listen, provide support and help children create healthy relationships in their families and communities. Flexibility, patience and a healthy sense of humor are also ideal characteristics for foster parents.
Bringing foster parents together so that they can support each other through their fostering journey is also a priority, said Candy Picka, program manager for Therapeutic Foster Care for Lutheran Social Service. “We provide opportunities for families to build these supportive relationships, which have become lasting friendships.”
Currently, there is a great need for families able and willing to provide short-term respite care, foster sibling groups, school-aged children, and older youth; and who are supportive and affirming of youth who identify as LGBTQIA2S+. BIPOC families are also needed to support children and youth of color.
Becoming a foster parent offers hope to children by providing a secure environment where children can thrive. To learn more, visit fosterminnesota.org.